I tried to imagine what it would be like if Constantin were my husband. It would mean getting up at seven and cooking him eggs and bacon and toast andcoffee and dawdling about in my nightgown and curlers after he'd left for work to wash up the dirty plates and make the bed, and then when he came home after a lively, fascinating day he'd expect a big dinner, and I'd spend the evening washing up even more dirty plates till I fell into bed, utterly exhausted. This seemed a dreary and wasted life for a girl with fifteen years of straight A's, but I knew that's what marriage was like, because cook and clean and wash was just what Buddy Willard's mother did from morning till night, and she was the wife of a university professor and had been a private school teacher herself. Sylvia Plath
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The author is describing an idealized version of what marriage would be like if she were married to Constantin. The idea of marriage is criticized as being one that it is based on the idea of women doing all the work, with no reward for it. The woman, in this case, is portrayed as being lazy and useless for most of the day. She only cares about her husband when he gets home from work. Instead of working hard to make her life better, she works hard to make it bearable for her husband.

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